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Jul 11, 2009

Back from our "Staycation"...

We actually started our staycation 2 days before Daddy was set to return from sea. It was a bit like the movie 'Office Space' where he announces that he doesn't really like working and "I don't think I'm going to go anymore"... Truthfully, I was over the single mom thing and couldn't wait for the reinforcement troops to sail in (literally) and give me a break! We have a state parks pass so I figured we would use it at our local state park and go to the beach. This was pretty cool since it's on the Chesapeake Bay and the kids can see Daddy's aircraft carrier, the USS Truman, go by bigger than life about 3 hours before he gets to the piers and we go to pick him up. In past years, this has become pretty routine, non-exciting stuff for me but now that the kids are a little older it is so fun to see them get excited and see things through their eyes. Of course, in their eyes the pirates Daddy is out hunting down are of the Blackbeard "aargh!" variety and the Carrier is just like "Top Gun", lol... I envy them and their un-jaded view of the world...oh, to be 5 again!

Anyway, me-the mom who hates to sit on the beach- actually bought a bunch of sand toys, umbrella, and a beach chair and headed out. Here's Finn at the State Park excited upon seeing the first of the small boats going by belonging to Daddy's battle group.

This is a pretty bad picture, but if you look in the left center of the horizon, you can see a Navy Destroyer, this was just one of the several smaller ships that precede the carrier coming in. (Lame, I didn't get a picture of the carrier - bad mom!)
Not sure what's going on here.
So it turns out the beach isn't so bad after all...I forgot how much cooler it is at the shore, and an umbrella helped! Now if the kids could just be older so I can trust them around the water I could actually read a book! I took one with me and laid it in the sand next to my chair to give myself "the illusion" of relaxing, but in reality was watching my kids in the surf like a hawk.

After Daddy got home, we had a great outdoor lunch at a restaurant on the water and gorged on crabcakes and grilled tuna sandwiches, Daddy also got his homecoming/late Father's Day gifts of a new Leatherman Skeletool and some tactical looking flashlight. My husband is a "geardo" so he was overjoyed, showing the kids "Look, this light is for night vision, etc, etc". You would think he would get tired of it all, but he loves his job and gets downright giddy when faced with a new tactical "toy"! After lunch, it was back to the beach where we remained off and on for the next 5 days, lol! Sailor/Husband also got some new surf fishing gear, so even after a day at the beach, we would head back out after dinner to fish. All this jived pretty well with the garden, since due to the "Minnesota Summer" we have been having my first tomatoes aren't even ripe yet, so my garden is kind of on autopilot right now until the fruits start to ripen, giving me some extra time. Even if we could afford a big vacation this year, we have no time since Sailor/Husband is leaving again in 2 weeks!

This pic shows what it's been like this summer so far: the Ziploc bag of my husband's toiletries never gets unpacked since he's always on his way out! It's like he's a visitor to his own home...I am waiting for him to start knocking on the door instead of opening it with his key, lol!

Finn with Daddy

Finn and Loch digging for crabs
We headed to the beach on base to await fireworks for the 4th of July. Finn is digging to China, of couse.

Not sure what waves Finnegan plans on surfing here, but he's got "the board carry" down pat!
Here's Marley obsessing over her frisbee. She has become quite the disc dog since she came to live with us, but has never played in the wind on the beach in the sand...it was all a bit much for her and I thought she might have a nervous breakdown out there!

We are actually headed out crabbing today - then it's back to the garden! I find that I usually avoid the beach like the plague during tourist season, but am slowly rediscovering the good things about living here that I often take for granted. Plus, it tires the kids out! I am, however, getting really tired of sweeping sand up from everywhere, and the inside of the car looks like a sand dune! Oh, and before I go...here's a mental smell for you...my husband left a plastic bucket in the Outback with some rotting squid bait in it...I got in the car the next day, and....ugh! Yep, Daddy's back, alright!


  1. So glad Daddy is home!- Wish it were for longer. My friend's mom takes a small kiddie pool to the beach and fills it with water for the kids to play in. Seems like a lot of work to me, but I guess it solves the big ocean problem. I have begun insisting my little ones where swim vests if they are in the surf. A bit anal I know, but better to be safe.....

    Cute dog, I have a VERY neurotic Border Collie/Nova Scotian Duck Toller mix who doesn't play, go figure. But he didn't have the best 1st home to put it nicely. Likes to try and herd and 'tag' people though, they are such characters those doggies!

    Oh, and I finally smartened up this year and put a huge bin in the back of my SUV which holds all sandy beach gear. So far is keeping things much cleaner. Next time I may take a wash bin and a gallon of water to keep in the back for rinsing feet before getting in. Is that too much??

  2. What a wonderful time y'all are havin'! Glad your Hubs got in safe and sound. :)

  3. Kelly, the kiddie pool is a great idea, but I agree it may be too much work for me to carry, lol...I already have repurposed out kiddie bike trailer as a beach wagon! I too make the kids wear PFD's, it's just a good idea all around, especially when it's crowded...sometimes I don't know how lifeguards can keep watch over all those kids that don't appear to have parents watching them. Your dog sounds like a great mix...I love Aussies & Border Collies and their personalities, a little (or alot) neurotic, kind of like me! Luckily mine has a pretty good outlet for her energy with her frisbee activities...she didn't really know how to play when we got her but figured it out pretty quickly. (We got her from an elderly lady who couldn't keep up with her! - she was a rescue, but at least not in the traditional sense, she had a loving home but not the attention her breed needs). My other rescue Aussie, 'Sprocket' is another story. She's still a puppy, and is hell on wheels! Love to see a pic of your dog posted sometime!